Self pay therapy is a path that more people are choosing, not because insurance is unavailable, but because paying out of pocket offers something insurance rarely can: genuine privacy, greater flexibility, and care that moves at your pace rather than a plan’s pace. At Cottonwood Psychiatry, Dr. Colleen McGuire, DO, a board-certified psychiatrist with extensive experience in therapy and medication management, walks alongside people who want thoughtful, confidential mental health support without the complications that can come with insurance involvement. If you have been wondering whether self pay therapy is right for you, contact Cottonwood Psychiatry to schedule a consultation.
What Is Self Pay Therapy?
Self pay therapy means you pay directly for your mental health care rather than billing through a health insurance plan. This arrangement is also sometimes called private pay therapy or out-of-pocket therapy. It may be a meaningful choice for people who value confidentiality above all else, those whose insurance does not cover mental health services at a level that works for them, or people who simply want more control over who they see and how often.
When you use insurance for therapy, your provider is typically required to assign a diagnosis code, and that information becomes part of your insurance record. Some people are comfortable with that process. Others, particularly those navigating sensitive concerns around work, relationships, or personal history, prefer that their therapy remain entirely private. Self pay therapy removes the insurance layer entirely, meaning your care stays between you and your provider.
At Cottonwood Psychiatry, self pay therapy may include evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and psychodynamic approaches, all offered through one integrated relationship with Dr. McGuire.
Who Might Consider Self Pay Therapy?
There is no single profile of someone who chooses self pay therapy. It is a thoughtful decision that people arrive at from many different directions.
You may be a good fit for self pay therapy at Cottonwood Psychiatry if any of the following resonate with you:
You want your therapy records to remain outside of your insurance company’s access
Your employer-sponsored insurance does not include mental health coverage, or the coverage is limited
You are self-employed, between jobs, or in a life transition that has changed your insurance situation
You have concerns about how a psychiatric diagnosis on your insurance record might affect future coverage, employment, or security clearances
You want the freedom to choose your provider rather than being limited to an in-network list
You value continuity of care with one trusted provider rather than navigating referrals across multiple systems
People navigating significant life transitions, working through grief, managing anxiety or depression, or exploring long-standing patterns in their thinking and relationships often find that self pay therapy gives them the space to go deeper without administrative interruptions. A consultation with Dr. McGuire is the best place to explore whether this approach fits your situation and goals.
The Self Pay Therapy Process at Cottonwood Psychiatry
Beginning self pay therapy at Cottonwood Psychiatry starts with a conversation, not a stack of insurance paperwork. Here is what the process typically looks like:
Initial Consultation
Your first appointment is a chance for Dr. McGuire to get to know you and for you to get a feel for working together. This is a collaborative conversation about what has been weighing on you, what you have tried before, and what you are hoping for. There is no pressure to have everything figured out before you arrive.
Developing a Care Approach Together
Based on your initial conversation, Dr. McGuire works with you to identify an approach that fits. For some people, that means focused CBT work around anxious thought patterns. For others, it might be ACT to build psychological flexibility, or psychodynamic therapy to explore how earlier experiences shape the present. Because Dr. McGuire practices both therapy and psychiatry, she can also explore whether medication may complement your therapy work, all within one relationship rather than two separate providers.
Ongoing Sessions and Flexibility
Self pay therapy sessions are typically scheduled at a cadence that makes sense for your life and goals. Because the relationship is direct, without insurance authorization requirements, session frequency can be adjusted as your needs evolve. Dr. McGuire offers telehealth as a seamless option, which is especially meaningful for people in the Highlands Ranch, Castle Rock, and Littleton areas who value flexibility or occasionally need to connect remotely.
Why Choose Cottonwood Psychiatry for Self Pay Therapy?
Dr. Colleen McGuire, DO, brings something that is genuinely uncommon to self pay therapy: she is a board-certified Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine specializing in Psychiatry who also practices evidence-based therapy modalities. Most people seeking mental health care end up working with a therapist for talk therapy and a separate psychiatrist for medication, navigating two sets of appointments, two communication styles, and two different understandings of their story. At Cottonwood Psychiatry, both dimensions of care are available through one trusted relationship.
Dr. McGuire completed her residency at the University of Colorado, where she served as Chief Resident, and has held roles as Attending Psychiatrist and Assistant Professor at Denver Health. She specializes in trauma, midlife hormonal concerns, and approaches that go beyond medication when that is what a person needs. Her background in anthropology informs a deeply human-centered way of understanding each person she works with.
Cottonwood Psychiatry serves people across Highlands Ranch, Castle Rock, Littleton, and surrounding Colorado communities, as well as patients in multiple states through telehealth. For a fuller picture of Dr. McGuire’s background and approach, visit the Meet Our Team page.
Results and What to Expect from Self Pay Therapy
Many people who choose self pay therapy describe a meaningful sense of relief in the early sessions, simply from having a confidential, unhurried space to speak honestly. Progress in therapy is rarely linear, and the timeline for noticing change varies depending on the nature of your concerns, the approach being used, and where you are in your own readiness for growth. Some people notice shifts in thinking patterns or emotional responses within a few weeks; others find that bigger change unfolds over months of consistent work. Individual results may vary. What tends to remain consistent is that the therapeutic relationship itself, built on trust, collaboration, and genuine care, is one of the strongest predictors of meaningful progress.
Frequently Asked Questions About Self Pay Therapy
Is self pay therapy truly confidential?
When you pay out of pocket without involving your insurance company, your provider is not required to submit claims or diagnosis codes to your insurer, which means your care stays between you and Dr. McGuire. Standard legal and ethical confidentiality protections still apply, as they do in all therapy relationships.
What therapy approaches does Dr. McGuire use?
Dr. McGuire works with several evidence-based modalities, including CBT, ACT, DBT, and psychodynamic therapy. The approach is always shaped by what fits each individual person rather than a one-size-fits-all protocol. You can read more about specific approaches on the psychiatric services overview page.
Do I need a diagnosis to start self pay therapy?
No. One of the benefits of self pay therapy is that care can begin with a conversation rather than a required diagnostic label. Dr. McGuire will want to understand what you are experiencing and what brings you in, but there is no requirement to arrive with a formal diagnosis in hand.
Can Dr. McGuire also manage medication if I need it?
Yes. Because Dr. McGuire is a board-certified psychiatrist in addition to practicing therapy, she can address both therapy and medication within the same relationship if that becomes part of your care plan. Learn more about medication management at Cottonwood Psychiatry.
How do I know if self pay therapy is the right choice for me?
The most honest answer is that a consultation will tell you far more than any webpage can. If privacy, flexibility, or access to an integrated psychiatrist-therapist relationship matters to you, self pay therapy at Cottonwood Psychiatry may be worth exploring. Reaching out is a low-stakes first step.
If you are ready to explore self pay therapy with a provider who will genuinely walk alongside you, Cottonwood Psychiatry is here. Dr. McGuire brings board-certified psychiatric expertise, a warm collaborative approach, and the flexibility of telehealth to people across Highlands Ranch, Castle Rock, Littleton, and beyond. Contact Cottonwood Psychiatry to schedule your consultation and take that first step toward care that is built around you.
Dr. Colleen McGuire, DO, is a Board-Certified Psychiatrist with a holistic approach to mental health. She completed her medical training at Touro University and residency at the University of Colorado, where she served as Chief Resident. Specializing in trauma, midlife hormonal issues, and alternatives to medication, Dr. McGuire integrates therapies like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Licensed in multiple states, she is known for her empathetic, client-centered care and dedication to mentoring. Outside work, she enjoys piano, swimming, and spending time with animals.
